Simple Joys of a Woman

Love begins with a dubdub
Heart beating fast
Cheeks blushing red
Eyes shining gloriously
Face glowing even without make-up.

As days go by
Small secrets are being revealed
Little by little
Patience turns double up
Imperfections become fine.

One day the man kneels down
With hands shaking like a leaf
He breaks the big question
Without much thinking
You say YES, I will.

When the church bell rings
Everybody gets inside
To witness a solemn wedding
United by true love
A blessing from God above.

Under one roof
You talk, laugh and cry
In a king bed
You cuddle each other
In warm or cool nights

Later on you realize
You partner snores so loud
Your neighbors can hear it
Messy in the house
His things are all over.

It’s 11 o’clock in the evening
The door bell rings
Where have you been, honey?
You ask with a concern tone
Followed by “Do you want some coffee?”

The next day, you cook adobo
He says it’s good
You taste it with a spoon
You are sure he’s lying
But he gets some more.

Your first born suddenly screams
He leaves his laptop
Rushes towards his Junior
Put the baby on his lap
Hey, Daddy is here.

Behind the beige wall
You peek and stand in awe
Strike a big smile and whisper
There is improvement in humanity
Junior’s nose is better than Daddy.

Photo grabbed at inmagine.com

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Because I Love You

Mothers wake up early to prepare breakfast for the family.
Why?
Because of love.

Teachers go to remote areas to educate poor kids.
Why?
Because of love.


Doctors and medical practitioners work in public hospitals and earn a lot smaller compare to those who work abroad.
Why?
Because of love.

Parents seek greener pasture in a foreign land even though it means being away from the family for as long as they can.
Why?
Because of love.

Employees give their 100% in their job no matter how demanding the job is.
Why?
Because of love.

Husband or boyfriend remains faithful to his partner despite a lot of temptations that this world offers.

Why?
Because of love.

Volunteers gather to render help for the victims of immense calamity.
Why?
Because of love.

Priests have chosen a celebate life in full service for the Lord and His people.
Why?
Because of love.

Amateur players continue to showcase their talent and skills even though they are not receiving much or even a single centavo.
Why?
Because of love.

God, the Father allowed His only son to be crucified on the cross.
Why?
Because of love.

Sometimes, suffering is the ultimate expression of love.

Don't you think?

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P.S. I’ll be OUT for a while. I will temporarily leave this blog with some of my fave compositions. Hope you'll have fun! :)

Everything will be alright – Bren Bataclan

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True Love

The church was so full and the nearby streets were also crowded.

The people were either wearing black, white or yellow top.

Tears were outpouring in all places.

Even the erratic weather was not a barrier for the masa to pay their last respect.

These were the general scenes during President Cory Aquino’s funeral.It was full of emotion.

While watching the tv coverage of the final mass for Pres. Cory, there was one episode that I really find so touching. Many times the camera would focus Kris Aquino, Cory Aquino’s youngest daughter. In a very short scene, Kris was sighted carrying his youngest son Baby James. The sadness and sorrow was all over her face. Baby James stared at her then kissed her.

What is so special about Kris-Baby James scene?

Baby James is 2 years old. He knows nothing about what’s happening. But his innocence gave comfort (no matter how simple the gesture is) at the exact moment that her mom needed to be comforted. Perhaps that was Baby James way of saying “Mommy, I love you! Don't cry na..."

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My Gift, My Only Gift

We couldn’t believe the big day has passed by
Just yesterday Tropatits were just sitting in two rows
Pretending that we're listening to our profs
After class we chat, laugh and search for a hottie
Outside the campus the mission continues.

We were the craziest and naughtiest
But never underestimate us

Because our grades were usually on top
Perhaps that's the effect of the beautiful friendship

Strengthened by the storms we were able to conquer.

.
Years passed so quickly
So different but still the same
Two of our friends just got married

We didn't expect it would be too soon
Nevertheless we all wish them well.

We are very happy for you, Elen and Berna
For picking a great guy
May God bless your marriage
With a bountiful life with your husband

And endless happiness with your children.

Thank you for all the good memories
And as time goes by new ones will form
But the strong bond shall never depart

Because in our hearts we truly value what we had
Best Wishes our dearest friends!


Elen and Rey & Berna and Frederick

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

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LOVE Thoughts

May boyfriend/girlfriend/asawa ka na ba? [(Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?) or (Are you married?) or (Are you in a relationship?)]

If you answer “none/no.” The next question would probably be like this:

Nagkaboyfriend/girlfriend ka na ba? (But, have you ever been in a relationship?)

Every human being likes discussing topics or issues about love. I mean romantic love. Now, let me ask you a question: How would you react when you are in mid-twentys and someone asks you “May boyfriend/girlfriend/asawa ka na ba?” but have never been in a relationship? Then it would be followed by another question? And the third; the fourth; the fifth… Until the supposed to be short conversation would lead to further curiosity. Would you entertain a burgeoning long chat? Or sincerely answer the first question then feign an excuse so you would not have to undergo “Don’t Lie to Me” segment?

This is my first attempt to talk about matters of the heart. If for most people this is such an interesting subject matter during dull hours or while having lunch or while waiting for the movie to start, for me this is extremely difficult most specially if I am the on the hot seat. Why? Because I do not have much to say and it is causing me severe headache. Just kidding! Hehe!

There are times that I also ponder upon my reasons for being single. And until now I still haven’t discovered the best explanation. At my age, the idea of falling in love seriously has actually never entered my head. I also don’t have the initiative to find one. And I do not even see myself growing old with a significant other. But I wish to raise kids. That’s odd, don’t you think?

However, just like anyone else. I love to love (secretly).I feel that each time I watch romantic films or drama. Hehe! I think loving is the most exciting feeling. And loving is lovelier when you are also being loved. But isn’t depressing to hear stories about broken relationship due to infidelity? Worst, there are people who are still willing to love no matter how deep the wound is. I really could not understand why there are people who are capable of loving despite the pain and people who continue to hurt those who love them.

I have also heard many times on tv that incompatibility is a common ground why a romantic relationship lead to a break-up. On the other hand, there are also stories of perfectly compatible couples after being together for so long would someday make a decision to go their separate ways. Isn’t that intriguing? Hmmm...

When some friends come to me and share their love problem, I would instantly feel sad; sometimes angry towards the other person; sometimes helpless. The first thing I would do is to analyze the situation then give advice if I can. But every so often I feel that my words aren’t good enough to console or mend their broken heart. Then I would realize that the best thing I could do is to listen and just simply be a friend.

After saying all these disheartening realities about love, I am still not sure if I would want to have a lifetime partner or be someone who has mastered the art of loving secretly for I do not know what the future holds. Sometimes, love could be sorrowful but if ever I would be in a serious commitment I would rather think its something I would not regret. After all, love is not always associated to suffering or misery. Love also brings great joy. Right?

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Top 10 Most Famous Break-up Lines

1. Ang sakit!
Ito ang initial reaction ng halos lahat ng naghihiwalay na nagmamahalan. Kung hindi mo ito nabanggit hindi ka tunay na nagmahal.

2. Bakit nya ko iniwan?!
Ito ang linya ng mga medyo low ang self-esteem. Pakiramdam niya ay ibinigay naman ang lahat ngunit sa huli ay lost pa rin ang beauty. Walang third party na involve. Basta hindi ka na nya love. Ganun.

3. Linoko nya ko!
Ginamit. Sinamantala. Inabuso. Binilhan ng bagong celfone. Ginastusan ang mga date. Isinuko ang bataan. Samakatuwid, ibinigay ang lahat ngunit sa huli iba ang iniharap sa altar. Wawa ka naman.

4. Tama na!
Ito ang linyang bunga ng hindi magandang relasyon. Pag-ibig na puno na pangunawa ngunit inabuso at umabot sa sukdulan.Mahal ang isa’t isa ngunit wala ng patutunguhan ang relasyon.

5. Marami pa dyang iba.
Ito ang linyang nanghihikayat sa sarili na wag mawalan ng pag-asa. Bitter pero handang magmahal muli. Move on agad ang drama.

6. It’s his/her lost not mine.
Confident. Ito ang linya ng mga hiniwalayan o biglang iniwan pero walang marka ng bitterness. Kadalasan sila yung pinagpala ng kagandahan at kagwapuhang mukha dahil alam nila na marami pa ang mahuhumaling sa kanilang alindog.

7. Babalik ka rin.Another confident. Pumayag makipaghiwalay kahit mahal na mahal nya. Dahil ang paniwala niya'y wala siyang katulad saan man sa mundo.

8. Wala naman tayong choice.
May halong bitterness pero walang choice. Ito yung linyang ginagamit sa mga long distance relationship. Hindi kinaya ang set-up kaya hiwalay na lang kung hiwalay. At ang follow-up: Kung talaga namang para tayo sa isa’t isa magiging tayo pa rin sa huli.

9. Sana maging friends pa rin tayo.
Ito ang linya ng mga taong nagiguilty sa ginawang pakikipaghiwalay. Alam nya ang sakit na idinulot nito sa kasintahan kaya pilit na pinaaasa na kahit hiwalay ay maaasahan pa rin nya ito bilang isang kaibigan. Charot! Asa ka pa.

10. Sige kung mas magiging masaya ka sa kanya.
Ito ang linya ng pag-ibig na hindi maramot. Ang drama: Ang mahal mo ay may mahal ng iba. At dahil mahal mo ay handa kang magparaya maging ang kahulugan nito’y iyong kabiguan.


Oops! Ang mga naisulat ay hango sa tunay na karanasan. Hindi ng may akda ngunit ng mga kaibigan at kakilalang nasaktan ng dahil sa pag-ibig. At syempre, impluwensya na rin ng mga soap opera. Wala pa rin tatalo kay "Esperanza."

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